Disney’s Fairy Tale Wedding: Sarah & Dylan

 Cinderella's Carriage Window Disney's Wedding Pavilion at Walt Disney World Disney's Fairy Tale Wedding

Disney’s Fairy Tale Wedding | Cinderella’s carriage stained glass window inside Disney’s Wedding Pavilion

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Six months from today, engaged couple Sarah and Dylan will say their I Do’s at Walt Disney World in Orlando, Florida. I met Sarah and her mom, Tracy, through Instagram and we met in person at Disney’s Fairy Tale Weddings Showcase this year. I was so completely honored when Sarah said she’d like to invite me to her Disney wedding! Of course I said yes! And we’ve been talking about the details ever since. It was really special to spend time with Sarah and Tracy at the Disney wedding showcase, hearing all about the bride-to-be’s wishes for her special day. I hope you’ll join us on the fourth of the month right here on this post every month until Sarah and Dylan’s big day as we talk all things Disney weddings in this Q and A series!

Inside Disney's Wedding Pavilion at Walt Disney World

Inside Disney’s Wedding Pavilion at Walt Disney World


6 Month Disney Wedding Countdown Q + A | 9/4/19

Q: Sarah, having a Disney’s Fairy Tale Wedding has been a lifelong dream for you, right? How did that start?

A: YES! Having a Disney’s Fairy Tale Wedding has been a dream ever since I can remember. I vaguely remember years ago when I was a little girl seeing the Wedding Pavilion along with Cinderella’s carriage and thinking….that’s it! I’m getting married there. I was instantly obsessed. Every year my parents would take me to Disney, I would snap a picture of the Wedding Pavilion from the monorail. I remember going online every year and ordering one of the free planning brochures just to look at. The only thing I was missing was my Prince Charming. When I met Dylan and he told me he loved me for the first time, my first response was “what?!”. My second response a couple months later was “You know, if you ever plan on proposing the only place I will consider getting married at is Disney. Just so we’re both on the same page!”

Q: How far out did you start planning?

A: I feel like we wanted to start planning as soon as we were engaged in October of 2017. However, the planning process with Disney is a little difficult unless you’re about 16 months out. At that point, you can only put in your “preferred” date and ceremony/reception location. The real planning can’t start until you’re exactly 12 months out. Which at the end of the day, it works out. The wedding we initially envisioned is completely different than the wedding we are planning now.

Q: Is there something related to your wedding you catch yourself daydreaming about repeatedly?

A: I daydream A LOT about those Wedding Pavilion doors opening and Dylan seeing me for the first time. I catch myself daydreaming about our Magic Kingdom portrait session a lot as well. It’s so hard to choose because everything about this day is a dream come true! I feel like I’m constantly daydreaming!

Q: Which wedding package did you pick?

A: We initially chose the Escape package but ended up choosing the Wishes package. We were definitely taken aback by how many guests were actually interested in traveling for our big day!

Q: Tell us your ceremony and reception venues!

A: Our ceremony will take place at Disney’s Wedding Pavilion. Our reception will take place at Disney’s Whitehall Room and Patio at Disney’s Grand Floridian.

Q: How many guests did you invite?

We invited about 80 guests.

Q: Tip for a future Disney Bride?

A: Patience is key early on in the process!
Never be scared to search Instagram for fellow Disney brides and ask questions. There are plenty of ladies, including myself, who are more than happy to share what we’ve been through so far.

Feel out your guests early. This will give you a vibe as to who is interested and who isn’t.

Pick 3 ceremony locations and 3 reception locations. If you have a specific date you want, you want to make sure you are flexible with your venues.

Use Pinterest to start gathering ideas. Especially for your photographers/park shoots. Your photographers will want to see what styles/shots are your favorite. This will ensure you get your favorite shots on your big day.


5 Month Disney Wedding Countdown Q + A | 10/4/19

Q: We’re five months out! What’s new since we last chatted?
A: Ahhhh!! I can’t believe it. Time is honestly flying by. I’m excited but overwhelmed at the same time.
Basically this past month Dylan and I spent a lot of time filling out our planning packet. The planning packet is kind of like a rough draft of all of our ideas to send back to our wedding planner. It will give us some conversation pieces for the day of our planning session. We also chose which cake flavors/fillings we want to taste. As well as menu items! Dylan and I celebrate our 2 year engagement anniversary this month. Realizing this has made us realize how fast this is all flying by!
Q: Tell us how the tasting and food selection worked for your wedding menu.
A: Since we are still in the somewhat earlier stage of planning, we haven’t fully picked our menu. This month we got to send off basically everything we want to try when we are in Disney for our wedding planning session next month. We were allowed to pick four cake flavors and four fillings. During the Disney Weddings Showcase this year, I got to taste a lavender cake with a peach schnapps mousse. I loved it! But this wasn’t an option on the sheet. My wedding planner was magical enough to allow us a fifth cake flavor and fifth filling to taste since I mentioned it!
As far as food, we had to chose eight menu items to taste at our planning session. Which will take place in the kitchen of the Grand Floridian as long as it’s available (AHH!!). We were allowed to pick four proteins only, sides, appetizers, etc. We tried to pick things that you couldn’t go to the park and grab or try anywhere. We are also adding some vegan items to the menu for two very special guests (Nicole and Jim!). We’re excited to try some new things! After we taste everything, we will sit with the chef to create a custom buffet menu for our wedding. How exciting is that?!
Q: Tips on getting your dining reservations for this special Disney trip?
A: So, we decided to do our rehearsal dinner on property. Disney Weddings will not book your rehearsal dinner for you, even if it’s on property. Depending on your reservation count, you may be able to use assistance from a Disney event planner. I’m not too sure on how that works. However, we only have about 14 guests attending our rehearsal dinner. We chose Ohana as our restaurant of choice. As soon as we hit that 180 day mark, I set my alarm for 6:00 a.m. to make sure we got that reservation for 14. I was SO scared that with a count that high, there wouldn’t be anything available but we were successful!
As far as the rest of our trip, Dylan and I basically went through our calendar and thought about where we may end up that day. We based our reservation around that. We aimed mostly for new things to try. We didn’t want to book everything so tightly, we wanted room to breath and take each day day by day.
Q: How would you describe the theme of your wedding?
A: To be honest, the theme of our wedding is kind of all over the place. Which oddly represents us perfectly. Every single touch screams us as a couple, or even individually. We have touch of Up and Star Wars, two of our favorite things. Our beagle Ellie unfortunately will not be there to help us celebrate however, she will be making an appearance in some way. We’re going to have a touch of Philly sports in there as well which I won’t go into too much detail, it’s a surprise! Everything else will be very romantic and light. Shades of blush, white and ivory. A little bit of sparkly and greenery. We are so excited to see everything come together!

4 Month Disney Wedding Countdown Q + A | 11/4/19

Q: We’re just four months away from your fabulous Disney Fairy Tale Wedding! How much do you have left to plan at this point?

A: Ahhh!! I can’t believe we are so close. I feel like it’s creeping up so quick and my mind is starting to scramble a little bit. We still have a TON to plan. However, we are in Disney on November 5th to plan our wedding with Disney’s Fairy Tale Weddings. We’re so excited to meet our planner! During this time we will go over every single aspect and vision for our wedding. I’ve compiled a binder of all of our wishes and dreams for our wedding to help create a visual for our day. We will also be tasting cake flavors and menu items that’s day. We’re just so excited!Q: Disney is a company that thrives because of its excellent service. Are you impressed with the service you’ve received in the planning process?A: I’m blown away with the team that Disney has through this planning process. When we first started planning, the first person we dealt with was Michelle Gilhooly. She was AMAZING! She is considered a senior wedding consultant. She helped us with the basics for the big day. For example, dates, times, venues, etc. She made sure all of those things were secure for us. Michelle met onsite with my mom and I right before the wedding showcase to walk us through the basics of our wedding as well as a site visit to our venues of choice. She also introduced us to our wedding dream team which consists of Carol Mikles and her assistant Ashley Zirfas. They have been great so far and super responsive. We can’t wait to meet them at our planning session. Here is a photo of Michelle and myself during the dessert party after the wedding showcase! She made sure to find my mom and I to make sure we were having a fun, fulfilling day.

Disney Fairytale Wedding Planning

Q: Tell us about the the bouquet and centerpiece design process! We chatted about this a little and I’m so interested.

A: So for my bouquets and centerpieces I’ve basically been studying Pinterest and deciding on what I love. I compiled all of these things onto a vision board basically and printed them to combine what we can during our planning session. I’m in love with peonies, blush, ivory, and green tones so those will definitely be included. I’m excited to see in person what Disney has to offer in regards to floral and centerpieces. For some reason, Dylan and I really love the look of lanterns for centerpieces so we want to incorporate that in some way with some light floral. We want to try to keep a super low budget on centerpieces and floral specifically. We love Disney but we didn’t want to go too Disney with the centerpieces. We have a special Disney gift for everyone at the reception!

Q: Anything else you want to update us with?

A: This week I started assembling our wedding invites! We ordered them through the amazing Themes Come True. They are great to work with and the sky is the limit with them. We ended up choosing an exclusive design that you can only use if you are getting married at Walt Disney World. I mean, how could you resist?! The only thing I slightly regrets is not paying a little extra to have them assemble the invites. It’s definitely keeping me busy! At this point in planning I’m focusing on purchasing the little things we need for our big day like stamps for the invites, gifts for the parents, groomsman gifts, ceremony programs, etc. How cute are these custom stamps?!

Disney Fairytale Weddings Stamps


3 Month Disney Wedding Countdown Q + A | 12/4/19

Q: Three months out, Sarah! What’s new since we last chatted?
Three months…I honestly can’t believe this day is so close. 90 more days until I marry the man of my dreams! Within the last month, we traveled to Disney to plan our Fairy Tale wedding. We went over every aspect of that day! We have also sent out our wedding invitations which is super exciting! We’re slowly seeing responses trickle in.

A: Tell us about your trip and planning session!
Our planning session was a dream come true. It started at 9am, where we met our wedding planner Carol at Francks. From there we kind of just jumped right into it! We went over timelines, details, who needed to be where and when.

Disney Wedding Planning SessionSarah and Dylan outside Franck’s before their planning session

Franck's Disney Wedding PlanningGorgeous view from the planning room.

In the middle of planning with Carol we were introduced to Karen, the floral event manager. She was amazing! She helped us choose colors, flowers, linens, chairs, favors. Anything you can imagine! I found this super helpful because I didn’t realize that basically any floral/enhancements we used to our ceremony could be transferred to our reception. This saved us when thinking of what to do for our centerpieces. After our floral planning it was time for our favorite part…CAKE!

DIsney Fairytale Wedding Cake Testing

We went into cake tasting almost positive that we would choose the churro cake with churro filling. We were wrong! We ended up with something completely different. Our favorites were the yellow cake with cookies and cream. As well as the lemon cake with raspberry mousse. Everything was delicious which made for a tough decision! The details of everything Disney Weddings was just amazing.

DIsney Fairytale Wedding Cake Testing

After cake we finished up any loose ends with Carol. Once planning was complete, we took a small break before our menu tasting. We took that opportunity to take a walk over to the Wedding Pavilion, where we will be saying I do! They were prepping for a wedding.

Disney Wedding Pavilion

Our menu tasting started around 2:30 pm and began with a tour of our cocktail hour/reception venue.

Disney Fairytale Wedding Whitehall Patio Grand FloridianWhitehall Room and Patio at the Grand Floridian Disney Fairytale Wedding Whitehall Room Grand Floridian

We then were escorted back to the kitchen of the Grand Floridian Convention Center. Yes, the kitchen! We got to have our menu tasting in the actual kitchen. I was amazed.

Disney Wedding Planning Session

Once we sat, we were introduced to our own personal chef who sat with us to walk us through everything. We also had our own personal waiter to assist as well. The first thing we chose was our napkin fold for our reception. Every type of napkin fold was present on our table inside of the kitchen.

Disney Wedding Planning Session

From here, we dove in and started tasting dishes. We all worked together to build our custom brunch menu! We even were walked through the choices for our vegan guests as well as the children attending.
Some of the items we tasted: chicken and waffle fritters with maple syrup. This was our favorite!

Disney Wedding Planning Session Food TastingDisney Wedding Planning Session Food Tasting Tomato, mozzarella, basil, with balsamic at Disney wedding tasting

Disney Wedding Planning Session Food Tasting Salmon with a risotto. The risotto was to die for!  

Disney Wedding Planning Session Food Tasting Gruyere Potato pave, braised beef, and a chicken stuffed with prosciutto and fontina cheese. 

Everything we tasted was absolutely amazing. There was another chef building each dish and taking pictures of each one. We felt like judges on a cooking show! Once we finished building the menu, everything was planned! We were shocked. Our dream wedding was planned in a matter of a few hours.
We were given a cute box of parting gifts, chocolate truffles! Our waiter also gave me a Mickey rice crispy treat since we were also celebrating my birthday. This day was so fun and rewarding I wish I could live it all over again. 

Disney Wedding Planning Session

Q: Can you share some helpful information for brides at this point in the Disney’s Fairy Tale Wedding planning process?

My biggest words of advice: enjoy every single moment. At this point, everything is flying by so fast I feel like my brain can’t even comprehend it. Go to your planning session with a ‘sky is the limit’ mentality. This will ensure you get everything you can even imagine priced out. You can always cut it once you receive your BEO. We received our BEO minus floral about a week after our planning session. However, our floral we didn’t receive until a month after our session. So patience is definitely key when it comes to receiving this! Once you receive it, do not be afraid to make changes, ask questions, or remove things. You want to make sure is perfect and error free! We received our floral BEO today and they made us the cutest dream board of everything we discussed.

Disney Wedding FloralDisney Wedding Floral


2 Month Disney Wedding Countdown Q + A | 1/4/19

Q: Sarah! We are two months away! What’s happened since we last chatted?
2 months!!! My head is spinning! I almost feel like with the holidays this last month was kind of a blur. We focused heavily this month on getting all of our response cards returned. We also started to map out our seating chart.

At this point in time, we have also adjusted the count on our room block. We released some rooms from our block due to most of our wedding guests already booking. We finally decided on groom’s man’s gifts so those are out of the way! We are super excited about those. Disney Fairy Tale Weddings also sent us the sweetest gift and card to keep the excitement going for our big day. I would share a photo of this but I don’t want to ruin the surprise for other fellow/future Disney brides!Q: What is left to plan?

I feel like everything is speeding up so fast now after waiting so long! The stress is starting to get real.
This month I go for my first dress fitting (EEEEK!). We will also finalize all seating, floral, etc. We are working on finding a guest book which has been a struggle. We also will be focusing on our ceremony with our officiant. We have a ton of verbiage to go over to decide how the ceremony itself should go. Rev. Kevin Knox has been wonderful to work with! Lastly, we are working on a couple final touches. Wedding programs, day of itinerary, etc. This month will be a whirlwind!

Q: Anything else we should know?

At this point in the game, Disney’s Fairy Tale Weddings has been amazing. My planner, assistant, and room block specialist have been so responsive. They’ve been there to help me with every little thing. They have literally been responding within hours of me reaching out. I’m so thankful for that. This day is almost here after almost 4 years in the making…I can’t believe it!


Less Than One Month Disney Wedding Countdown Q + A | 2/14/19

Q: You’re less than a month away! What do you still need to do at this point in the Disney Fairy Tale Wedding process?

At this point I’m trying not to go crazy! In all seriousness I’m basically just prepping on making sure everything is in like for our big day. I sent a wedding schedule to our wedding party just so everyone knows their timelines/when and where they should be. We also finalized all of our ceremony details with our wedding officiant. The only thing I have to do is write my vows!

Q: I feel like you’ll be packing more than you normally do? How are you planning to transport special wedding necessities?

So packing is a huge process for this trip. I have a total of 4 different packing lists. One for me, one for Dylan, one for the ceremony, and one for the rehearsal. Any items that Disney needs to set up for you for the ceremony/rehearsal have to be packed in different bags. We’re planning on packing these things in rolling suitcases small enough to use as carry-ons. Each of those has to have a packing list stating what’s included and who will be responsible for gathering those items post wedding. We will drop these off to our planner once we arrive in Florida for our wedding. My dress is also coming with me on the plane. Either on our laps, overhead bins, or in a closet. Either way, it’s not leaving my sight!

Q: What else do we need to know?

I found it most important to stay on top of asking about our rehearsal time slot. You do not find out this information until 30 days prior which can be stressful. Same goes for your park-shoot if you are doing a portrait session before/after your wedding.

Q: Any final tips for potential Disney brides?

Take it all in. Enjoy every single final day leading up to this moment. It’s FLYING by and I feel like my head is spinning but I’m so excited. Don’t be scared to give your bridal party a schedule for the rehearsal day and wedding day. It’s super useful when it comes to making sure everyone is on the same page. ASK QUESTIONS! If you feel unsure about something or something is unclear about your upcoming day, ask away. Disney wedding planners are so helpful and respond very quickly.


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1 Comment

  1. Talara Hamlin
    September 4, 2019 / 4:42 pm

    Love this post & the idea of a Q & A for the next 6 months!! So magical in every way!!


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